So how long until you give up and try something new? I am at a big crossroad at the moment and I am wondering how long I can stay in park until I have to move right or left. I mean when do you decide that the one thing you want to do is not going to work and you have to find something new? And am I giving up or am I being smart and changing my life?  It's these moments in "adult" life that I wish I were still a kid and my mom or dad would just tell me what to do. But I know... I'm an adult-ish and I need to figure these things out on my own. 

But seriously... HOW LONG DO I WAIT??